About
I am a sexual submissive. I am still trying to figure out what this means for me. For me, this means I relinquish control in “the bedroom” which of course is a loose and fluid term.
A lot of the things I write on this blog are personal fantasies only. They turn me on, yes, and maybe with the right person I could see myself wanting a certain experience. But it doesn’t mean I want all that.
You can read my more personal blog posts here, they have been filtered from other things I post.
Because people have asked, I am a submissive woman in my twenties. A few kinks: forced orgasms and conversely, orgasm denial, sensory deprivation, stringent bondage, spanking, especially over the knee spanking, being held accountable and disciplined, above all, an intelligent and imaginative kinky mind.
I could never submit to someone without a solid grasp on the mechanics of grammar and syntax. Please don’t use my Ask to say things like “u wanna b my slave??” I do not see this kind of person who writes like that and corresponds with me like that as a Dominant, at all—at least, not someone I could submit to.
This quote from Anais Nin says it all:
I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.
